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Assalamualaikum Warahmatullah....


I know, it has been a while.. my bad.. been busy had finals.. yes, a bachelor degree graduate :) alhamdulillah. Unfortunately still didn't find any job. I know im kind of picky and choosy. You know why. I want to be with my family. So, Pekan should be and must be my workplace. But if i have to work in different places i don't mind. As long as the company pays me better. Why don't we find new place to start a new journey right? This is definitely a new experience for me. Hopefully i will get a suitable job worth my degree. Ameen. To my friends who already gotten the jobs, congratss!! Don't stop working until you die! haha.. JK..




Im turning 24 in 21 days. Hurm, it's a big number and i have to act maturely and start to save money for my own future especially wedding! Yes! I want to get married, i mean who don't right? Plus, yesterday was a big event and i considered it as wedding of the decade. It was a Royal Wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton. Everything was perfect! That makes me wanna get married as soon as possible..

I have few reasons why i want to get married early. 24 for me is still considered early but not other families. It depends actually, as long as you have money you can get married. It is pretty easy to say that wealthy family can easily marry their children off as they have money for the wedding from bertunang , akad nikah and wedding reception.

Oh ya, back to my reasons, why i want to get married early.....



1- Because i want to get Barakah from Allah swt in my relationship. Once we get married, everything we do to our spouses will be rewarded by Allah swt. Missing them, hugging them, holding their hands and et cetera. BUT BUT BUT this is totally opposite if you don't have any legal relationship with your partner bounded with religion. So, don't you want to be rewarded if you just smile to your husband?






2- In terms of health, it is good for women to get married and have children before the age of 30. I mean at least you have a child pun still enough. There is a high possibility for women to get cancer. Nauzubillah.. . And those who get their first menstruation early around 9,10,11 years old it is advisable to get married before the age of 30 and have children. This is because once you have children before the age of 30, the risk of getting cancer is becoming lower.




3- Also in the field of medical, it is not advisable to conceive when you are turning 35 years old. The mother or baby might have problems especially complication during the labor. Im not really sure about this but it is better to avoid right?





4- Finally, my last reason is ........ i think i can't tell you..So let me keep it. Surely, i will reveal it someday..





ttyl

xoxo